more on this maniac, Ted

I walked out on him after I had called the cops on him and haven't been back in 3 weeks. I stayed with family and was so devastated after the experience.....this man is a maniac and a monster and I have never, ever in my life encountered anyone as bad as he is. Worst mistake I ever made was getting involved with him. I made the mistake of moving in with him in a crunch and wish I had gone anywhere else. I have done extensive spiritual work to heal from this and it has been very difficult. He has sent me irate, enraged text messages when I said tomorrow is a better time to pick up my things, my diaries, birth certificate, clothes.....because I hadn't yet moved into my new place which has been now delayed til Wednesday and I had very calmly asked if it was possible to get my stuff Tuesday rather than today and he sent me texts that were insulting, nasty and abusive. He is a horrible man. I cannot stress that enough. 
His situation with his kid......that he sees once every few months for maybe an hour, with a bodyguard present......I'm telling you I come from divorced parents and this is not normal. This is a danger flag right there.....when I was five my mother put me on a plane to see my father in Chicago and I would spend a week with him, then when we moved there I'd see him every weekend. I met his friends, family (my family too of course) the girl he was dating who took me in like a sister or niece and introduced me to her family. My mother remarried and I spent time with his kids as well. We were like a big extended family. We were always there for each other. Always. This is typical especially now. So the fact that his visits (Ted's) are so curtailed spells out trouble, and this girl online said he had made threats to kidnap the child. 
Ted was obsessed with me and angry that I ditched him TWICE......would send raging hateful text messages with the pretense of some minor issue around the house but really he was jealous that I was with another guy. It wasn't even like he was in love with me, more like he had a "right" to me. He doesn't. He is a horrible human being and I regret the day I ever met him. I want to get my things but it has been difficult I can't stress that enough and now I have to get the police involved again. I wish I had gone to Long Island to my mom's but I'm dealing with this as it comes. Stay away from this man!

SIF Staten Island

Not a bad place. Now I need a new hair dryer it's raining anyhow so any way my hair will get fizzed up. Guess it could be worse. I'm not in bay ridge the gps isn't working right.
Too  many magnets. Adam Levine on the radio somewhat reassuring.

To their credit safe horizon helped a little

My stuff is still at that place my birth.certificate diaries altar stuff that he has no right to touch I haven't been back in a week. I was so devastated I just couldn't go back there. Thankfully I have a place to stay and found  some possibilities for a new place but can't move for a few days. I don't want to see him or talk to him bit I have to get my stuff. If he touches anything or reads my private writings it's invasion of privacy if he does anything with it it's theft. I will never forgive him for what he put me through. He's a horrible human being.

Just

Had a fun Saturday night calling safe horizon then the cops on that jerk. Among my other grievances add loss of work time, loss of money. His threats were over $45 really he's not going to starve he just wanted an excuse to harass me and intimidate me.

Threats

This person Ted screamed at me for about half an hour over an alleged charge of $45 that he said I owe him though I never saw any paperwork when I said I didn't have it he got got In my face and yelled that tuesday was the deadline abd I "had" to give it to him and i said or what and he paused and said "you dont want to know what." Then he proceeded to scream at me throwing accusations and insults in my face this and that an issue I have with a cab driver which is between him and the driver I am not his subordinate and he is .ot my father and I allegedly did this and that .....even though no one called the cops on me or said anything to me and I never once got anything in writing. Ever. I in fact called the domestic violence hotline on him three times and have emailed several times safe horizon.....the only time I.ever heard of my doing anything offensive was from him and him telling me this. Just because he co owns the . Place with his mother from money his father left him.....does not . Make Ted God or give him any right to intrude on my private affairs. He has been irresponsible with his own place both this one and his former residence where he didnt make proper repairs and no one wants to buy any property from him AND he was reported on a website as being abusive, as allegedly raping a girl no two girls forcing pregnancy on both  using their children to intimidate and manipulate the women threatening to kidnap his son whom he is only allowed to see once a month, at most, on supervised visits lasting about an hour, this with.bodyguards present. With such a history behind him, plus stalking and harassment, I personally dont think he is in.  Position to either condemn me for doing a leg stretch in the laundry room, making "dog noises " (go figure that one) or a fare dispute strictly between me and the driver not to mention threatening to take my property or damage it (which he has in the past).....the fact is he won't or can't  responsibly manage his own place why this was left to him is a mystery to me he can't or won't pay his own electric bill amd he is violent irrational has a long violent history .....I do not understand why this man who is a human time bomb is not in jail.

If

I am wrong about what I suspect then I apologize. I am sorry for my own screw ups if that is what it amounts to. However if I am right about what I think he did then he is a truly evil being and all I can say is he needs to be in a place where he can't hurt anybody. He is arrogant, violent, vindictive, petty, nickel and diming, throwing in people's faces (mine) random, vague charges accusations, insults, thinly veiled threats.....if this is merely ignorance of proper protocol it doesn't excuse him. And I don't buy it. The fact that he mysteriously knew what I was doing when I was out with other people (men) raises questions. How did he know?

Another link

http://michelleraylrma.wordpress.com/2010/03/17/personality-traits-of-rapists-abusers-and-criminals/

Person Im writing about displays pretty much all these traits