more on this maniac, Ted

I walked out on him after I had called the cops on him and haven't been back in 3 weeks. I stayed with family and was so devastated after the experience.....this man is a maniac and a monster and I have never, ever in my life encountered anyone as bad as he is. Worst mistake I ever made was getting involved with him. I made the mistake of moving in with him in a crunch and wish I had gone anywhere else. I have done extensive spiritual work to heal from this and it has been very difficult. He has sent me irate, enraged text messages when I said tomorrow is a better time to pick up my things, my diaries, birth certificate, clothes.....because I hadn't yet moved into my new place which has been now delayed til Wednesday and I had very calmly asked if it was possible to get my stuff Tuesday rather than today and he sent me texts that were insulting, nasty and abusive. He is a horrible man. I cannot stress that enough. 
His situation with his kid......that he sees once every few months for maybe an hour, with a bodyguard present......I'm telling you I come from divorced parents and this is not normal. This is a danger flag right there.....when I was five my mother put me on a plane to see my father in Chicago and I would spend a week with him, then when we moved there I'd see him every weekend. I met his friends, family (my family too of course) the girl he was dating who took me in like a sister or niece and introduced me to her family. My mother remarried and I spent time with his kids as well. We were like a big extended family. We were always there for each other. Always. This is typical especially now. So the fact that his visits (Ted's) are so curtailed spells out trouble, and this girl online said he had made threats to kidnap the child. 
Ted was obsessed with me and angry that I ditched him TWICE......would send raging hateful text messages with the pretense of some minor issue around the house but really he was jealous that I was with another guy. It wasn't even like he was in love with me, more like he had a "right" to me. He doesn't. He is a horrible human being and I regret the day I ever met him. I want to get my things but it has been difficult I can't stress that enough and now I have to get the police involved again. I wish I had gone to Long Island to my mom's but I'm dealing with this as it comes. Stay away from this man!